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A Marriage Made In Heaven

Jul 7, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorMarriageA Marriage Made In Heaven

The message introduces a sermon series focused on biblical principles for marriage, emphasizing the importance of building a marriage on God's word. It discusses the foundational verse, Psalm 127:1, highlighting that unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. The speaker outlines the structure of the series, which will include topics such as love and respect in marriage, conflict management, and the significance of a Christian marriage. The message stresses the need for couples to seek God's guidance and to understand the sacredness of marriage amidst cultural challenges.

Psalm 127:1Genesis 2:24Ephesians 5:331 Peter 3:7Matthew 19:4-52 Corinthians 6:141 Corinthians 7:39Hebrews 13:4

Reflection Questions

What expectations do you have for your marriage, and how do they align with biblical teachings?

In what ways can you actively seek God's guidance in your relationship?

How can understanding the roles of love and respect improve your interactions with your spouse?

What steps can you take to build a strong foundation for your marriage based on biblical principles?

How can you support friends or family members who are struggling in their marriages?

Consulting The Blueprint

Jul 14, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorMarriageA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the importance of following God's original blueprint for marriage as outlined in Genesis 2. The speaker discusses the origin of marriage, highlighting that it was instituted by God and is meant to be a heterosexual and monogamous union. The message also covers the blessings and purposes of marriage, including companionship, sexual fulfillment, and the portrayal of Christ's relationship with the church. The speaker encourages listeners to reflect on their own marriages and the foundational principles that guide them.

Genesis 1:26-28Genesis 2:18-24Proverbs 18:22Ephesians 5:22-251 Corinthians 7:1-5Hebrews 13:4

Reflection Questions

What does it mean to you that God instituted marriage?

How can you apply the biblical principles of marriage to your own relationships?

In what ways can you ensure that your marriage reflects the relationship between Christ and the church?

What steps can you take to strengthen the companionship in your marriage?

Love and Respect

Jul 28, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorMarriageA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on the biblical principles of love and respect in marriage, as outlined in Ephesians 5. The speaker emphasizes that husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, while wives are called to respect their husbands through submission. The message highlights the importance of understanding these roles within the context of a loving and supportive relationship. The speaker also addresses common misconceptions about submission and leadership in marriage, advocating for a model of servant leadership that mirrors Christ's relationship with the church.

Ephesians 5:22-33Mark 10:45Luke 22:26Genesis 2:24

Reflection Questions

1. How can you actively demonstrate love to your spouse in a sacrificial way this week?

2. In what areas do you struggle with respect or submission in your marriage?

3. How does understanding Christ's love for the church change your perspective on your role in marriage?

4. What practical steps can you take to nourish and cherish your marriage?

5. How can you communicate your needs and expectations to your spouse more effectively?

How To Love Your Wife

Aug 4, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on the biblical principles of love and respect in marriage, particularly emphasizing the husband's role in loving his wife. The speaker discusses the importance of closeness and openness in a marriage, drawing from various scripture passages, including Ephesians and Song of Solomon. He highlights how men can demonstrate love through actions that foster intimacy and connection. The message encourages husbands to understand their wives' needs for emotional closeness and open communication to strengthen their relationships.

Ephesians 5:22-33Song of Solomon 3:1-5Genesis 2:24Genesis 29:32Deuteronomy 24:5Colossians 3:19

Reflection Questions

How can you actively demonstrate love and closeness to your spouse this week?

In what ways do you currently communicate openly with your partner, and how can you improve this?

What fears or misconceptions do you have about expressing vulnerability in your relationship?

How does understanding the differences between men and women help you navigate your marriage better?

How To Love Your Wife (2)

Aug 11, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This sermon focuses on the biblical principles of understanding and respecting one's spouse, particularly within the context of marriage. The speaker emphasizes the importance of husbands loving their wives as Christ loves the church and the necessity of understanding their needs and feelings. Key points include the significance of communication, the role of love languages, and the importance of conflict resolution through gentleness and taking responsibility. The message encourages husbands to invest time and effort into understanding their wives to foster a healthier marriage.

Ephesians 5:331 Peter 3:7Romans 12:18Romans 14:19Ephesians 4:2Ephesians 4:32Isaiah 54:5Matthew 7:3-51 John 4:19

Reflection Questions

What are some specific ways you can show understanding and respect to your spouse this week?

How do you currently communicate with your spouse, and what changes could improve that communication?

In what areas do you struggle to understand your spouse, and how can you actively work on those areas?

Reflect on a recent conflict; how could you have approached it differently to promote peace and understanding?

How to Love Your Wife (3)

Sep 1, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the importance of loyalty in marriage, highlighting how husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church. The speaker discusses practical ways to demonstrate loyalty, such as reassuring wives with words and actions, making a covenant with one's eyes, and committing to faithfulness. He uses biblical references, particularly from Ephesians and the Song of Solomon, to illustrate the principles of love and respect within marriage. The message concludes with a call for men to renew their commitment to their wives and uphold the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong covenant.

Ephesians 5:25-33Song of Solomon 1:9-11Song of Solomon 2:4Job 31:1Proverbs 5:15-18Malachi 2:13-16

Reflection Questions

What are some specific ways you can reassure your spouse of your love and loyalty?

How do you demonstrate commitment to your marriage in your daily actions?

In what ways can you create a supportive environment for your spouse to feel valued?

What steps can you take to guard your heart and eyes in today's culture?

How can you renew your marriage vows or commitments to strengthen your relationship?

How to Love Your Wife (4)

Sep 8, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on how husbands are called to love their wives, drawing from Ephesians 5 and other scriptures. The speaker emphasizes the importance of loyalty, esteem, and cherishing one's wife through actions and words. Practical ways to express love include sharing life, praising her contributions, and treating her with respect. The message encourages husbands to understand their wives' needs for affirmation and to actively demonstrate their love through symbolic gestures. Ultimately, the call is to love wives as Christ loves the church.

Ephesians 5:28Philippians 2:31 Peter 3:7Song of Solomon 8:6Job 31:1Proverbs 5:15Malachi 2:14Proverbs 31:10Song of Solomon 5:2

Reflection Questions

1. In what ways do you currently express love and esteem to your spouse?

2. How can you improve your communication to ensure your wife feels valued?

3. What symbolic gestures can you implement to show your love for your wife?

4. Reflect on a time when you felt unappreciated; how can you ensure your wife never feels that way?

5. How does understanding your wife's perspective change the way you approach your relationship?

How To Respect Your Husband

Sep 15, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorWifeA Marriage Made In Heaven

This sermon emphasizes the importance of respect in marriage, particularly from wives towards their husbands. The speaker discusses how a husband's greatest need is respect, as outlined in Ephesians 5:33. He explains that God has instilled in men a desire to work, achieve, protect, and provide for their families. The message encourages wives to appreciate these qualities and to support their husbands in their roles, highlighting that respect is crucial for a healthy marriage.

Ephesians 5:22Ephesians 5:331 Peter 3:1Genesis 2:7Genesis 2:151 Thessalonians 2:7Titus 2:4Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 11:3Proverbs 14:1Proverbs 18:21Proverbs 12:18Proverbs 21:9Proverbs 19:13

Reflection Questions

1. In what ways can you show respect to your spouse in daily life?

2. How does understanding your spouse's needs change your perspective on your relationship?

3. What are some practical steps you can take to support your spouse's work and achievements?

4. How can you create an environment in your home that fosters mutual respect?

5. Reflect on a time when you felt respected by your spouse. How did it impact your relationship?

How To Respect Your Husband (2)

Sep 22, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorWifeA Marriage Made In Heaven

The message focuses on the biblical principles of marriage, particularly the roles of husbands and wives as outlined in Ephesians 5. The speaker emphasizes the importance of love and respect, highlighting that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church, while wives are to respect their husbands. The message also addresses cultural objections to biblical authority and submission, clarifying that these roles are rooted in God's design for marriage. Practical advice is given for how wives can show respect for their husbands' authority and insight.

Ephesians 5:22-33Matthew 20:26-28Genesis 2:16-171 Timothy 2:11-131 Corinthians 11:3Galatians 3:28Romans 5:12-19

Reflection Questions

1. How do you currently show respect to your spouse in your marriage?

2. In what ways can you better understand and appreciate your spouse's role and insights?

3. How do cultural views on marriage and authority influence your perspective on your relationship?

4. What practical steps can you take this week to demonstrate love and respect in your marriage?

How To Respect Your Husband (3)

Oct 6, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorWifeA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on the roles of husbands and wives in a marriage, emphasizing the importance of love and respect. The speaker discusses how husbands should love their wives as themselves, while wives should respect their husbands. The message highlights the differences in communication styles between men and women, particularly the need for shoulder-to-shoulder friendship for men. Additionally, it addresses the significance of sexual intimacy within marriage and the biblical principles surrounding it. The speaker encourages couples to meet each other's needs to strengthen their marriage.

Ephesians 5:33Proverbs 2:17Song of Solomon 5:16Titus 2:3-51 Corinthians 7:3-5Hebrews 13:4Proverbs 5:18-19Matthew 5:27-28

Reflection Questions

How can you better show respect to your spouse in your daily interactions?

What are some practical ways you can communicate love to your partner?

In what ways do you think your communication style differs from your spouse's?

How can understanding your spouse's needs improve your relationship?

What steps can you take this week to strengthen the friendship aspect of your marriage?

The Fight Is Off

Oct 13, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorConflictA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the importance of resolving conflict in marriage, emphasizing that differences in personality and the presence of faults are common challenges. The speaker outlines three general principles for conflict resolution: recognizing differences, acknowledging faults, and understanding that conflict can be resolved. Specific biblical principles are provided, including self-examination, effective communication, forgiveness, and focusing on each other's strengths. The message concludes with a prayer for marriages facing difficulties, encouraging couples to apply these principles to restore harmony.

1 Corinthians 12:4-7Romans 3:9-12Matthew 7:3-5Ephesians 4:25-32Philippians 2:3Galatians 5:22-23

Reflection Questions

1. How do you typically handle conflict in your marriage or relationships?

2. What are some differences you and your partner have that could lead to conflict, and how can you appreciate those differences?

3. Can you identify specific faults in yourself that may contribute to conflicts? How can you address them?

4. How can you practice forgiveness in your relationship, especially after a disagreement?

5. What strengths do you see in your partner that you can focus on to improve your relationship?

Your Parents and Your Marriage

Oct 27, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorYour ParentsA Marriage Made In Heaven

This sermon discusses the importance of leaving father and mother in the context of marriage, emphasizing loyalty to one's spouse over parental relationships. The speaker outlines practical applications for avoiding conflict with parents, including managing time, finances, and advice. He stresses the need to honor parents while establishing a new loyalty to one's spouse and children. Additionally, the message highlights the responsibility of caring for aging parents and the balance required in maintaining a healthy marriage. Overall, the sermon encourages couples to navigate their relationships with parents thoughtfully to foster harmony in their marriage.

Genesis 2:24Ephesians 6:1-2Matthew 19:51 Corinthians 6:16Ephesians 5:311 Timothy 5:8

Reflection Questions

How can you ensure that your loyalty to your spouse is prioritized over your relationship with your parents?

What specific strategies can you implement to avoid conflicts with your in-laws?

In what ways can you honor your parents while establishing your own family dynamics?

How do you plan to address potential conflicts that may arise from differing family traditions?

What steps can you take to prepare for the possibility of caring for aging parents in a way that supports your marriage?

Building a Communication Network

Nov 3, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorCommunicationA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the critical role of communication in marriages, highlighting that despite technological advancements, many couples struggle to connect on a deeper level. The speaker discusses various hindrances to effective communication, such as pride, anger, and misunderstanding, and offers practical solutions based on biblical principles found in Ephesians 4. Key strategies include being open and truthful, not allowing anger to fester, and committing issues to God in prayer. The message concludes with a call to action for couples to start breaking down communication barriers and work towards healing their relationships.

Ephesians 4:17-24James 1:5Ephesians 4:25Ephesians 4:26Ephesians 4:29Hebrews 4:15

Reflection Questions

1. What communication barriers have you experienced in your own relationships?

2. How can you apply the principles from Ephesians 4 to improve your communication with your spouse?

3. In what ways do you tend to either clam up or blow up during conflicts?

4. How can prayer play a role in resolving communication issues in your marriage?

5. What steps can you take this week to start breaking down walls of silence or misunderstanding in your relationship?

Looking Out for Number One

Nov 10, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorSelfishnessA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message discusses the pervasive issue of selfishness in marriages and emphasizes the importance of selflessness. The speaker highlights how individualism and a decline in moral virtues contribute to marital conflicts. Drawing from Philippians 2, the message outlines principles of unselfishness, such as valuing others above oneself and avoiding selfish ambition. The speaker encourages couples to adopt a mindset similar to Christ's, focusing on serving and loving each other rather than seeking personal fulfillment.

Philippians 2:1-5Ephesians 5:312 Timothy 3:21 Corinthians 7:3-4

Reflection Questions

In what ways do you see selfishness affecting your relationships?

How can you actively practice selflessness in your marriage this week?

What does it mean to you to value your partner above yourself?

Can you identify a recent situation where you acted out of self-interest rather than considering your partner's needs?

Building Love Into Your Marriage

Nov 24, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorLoveA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message discusses the importance of building love into marriage through understanding, cultivation, and rekindling. The speaker emphasizes that love is not merely a feeling but a commitment to selfless giving for the benefit of one's partner. Key biblical references highlight the nature of love as described in Ephesians and 1 Corinthians, focusing on patience, kindness, and sacrifice. The message also addresses common myths about love, urging couples to actively cultivate their relationship to ensure its longevity and health.

Ephesians 5:25Titus 2:4John 3:16Romans 5:81 John 4:9-101 Corinthians 13:4-7

Reflection Questions

What does it mean to you to love selflessly in your marriage?

How can you actively cultivate love in your relationship this week?

What are some misconceptions about love that you may have held?

How can you apply the biblical definition of love to your daily interactions with your spouse?

Truth or Consequences

Dec 1, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHonestyA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the importance of honesty in relationships, particularly in marriage. The speaker discusses how many relationships suffer from superficiality due to a lack of truthfulness and the consequences that arise from avoiding difficult conversations. Biblical principles are highlighted, including the necessity of speaking truthfully and the dangers of dishonesty. The message encourages listeners to cultivate open and honest communication to foster deeper connections and avoid the pitfalls of deceit.

Ephesians 4:25Colossians 3:9Exodus 20:16Proverbs 6:16-19Proverbs 8:6-8Proverbs 12:17Proverbs 12:19Proverbs 13:5Proverbs 24:11-12Proverbs 26:23

Reflection Questions

What are some ways you can practice honesty in your relationships this week?

How do you typically respond when someone shares a difficult truth with you?

Can you identify areas in your life where you may be avoiding honesty?

What steps can you take to create a more open and trusting environment in your marriage or friendships?

Taming the Money Monster

Dec 15, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorFinancesA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the cultural shift in attitudes towards money and possessions, highlighting how the 'money monster' has negatively impacted families and marriages. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding both wrong and right attitudes towards money, as outlined in 1 Timothy 6. Key principles include recognizing money as a servant rather than a master, prioritizing spiritual over material wealth, and practicing generosity and contentment. The message concludes with practical steps for sound financial management to achieve harmony in relationships.

1 Timothy 6:6-10Luke 12:16-21James 1:17Proverbs 3:91 Corinthians 16:1-2Philippians 4:11-12Hebrews 13:5Matthew 6:19-21Matthew 6:24Matthew 6:31-33

Reflection Questions

What are some ways the pursuit of wealth has affected your relationships?

How can you shift your focus from material possessions to spiritual priorities in your life?

In what areas of your financial life do you feel the 'money monster' has taken control?

What practical steps can you take this week to start managing your finances in a way that honors God?

Living With an Unbelieving Mate

Dec 29, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorUnequal YokeA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the challenges faced by a believing wife living with an unbelieving husband, emphasizing the importance of submission, moral purity, and inner beauty. The speaker highlights that the solution is not to leave the marriage or pressure the husband with words, but rather to demonstrate a consistent, godly life that reflects Christ's love. The message draws from 1 Peter 3, encouraging believers to focus on their behavior and character as a means to influence their unbelieving spouse positively. Ultimately, the speaker stresses the significance of inner beauty and a gentle spirit in winning over an unbelieving partner.

1 Peter 3:1-62 Corinthians 6:141 Corinthians 7:12-15

Reflection Questions

1. How can you cultivate a gentle and quiet spirit in your daily interactions?

2. What are some practical ways you can demonstrate moral purity in your relationships?

3. In what areas of your life do you feel challenged to submit to authority, and how can you approach that with a Christ-like attitude?

4. How can you show love and kindness to someone who is resistant to the gospel without using words?

5. Reflect on a time when your actions spoke louder than your words; what did you learn from that experience?

When It All Comes Crashing Down

Jan 5, 2014Dr. John King, Senior PastorDivorceA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the complexities of divorce within the context of Christian teachings. The speaker emphasizes God's original design for marriage as a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman, while acknowledging the reality of living in a fallen world where divorce occurs. He discusses biblical allowances for divorce, particularly in cases of infidelity and abandonment, and stresses the importance of grace, understanding, and compassion for those affected by divorce. The message concludes with a call for the church to support and restore individuals who have experienced divorce, emphasizing that they are not second-class Christians and can be forgiven and restored.

Matthew 19:3-9Mark 10:11-12Luke 16:18Romans 7:2-31 Corinthians 7:15Malachi 2:161 John 2:1-2

Reflection Questions

How do you view the topic of divorce in light of God's original design for marriage?

In what ways can you extend grace and compassion to those who have experienced divorce?

What are some practical steps you can take to support individuals in your community who are navigating the challenges of divorce?

How can understanding the complexities of divorce help you to avoid judgment and offer support to others?