Dr. John King

Dr. John King

About

Dr. John King, D.Min., has over 50 years of pastoral ministry experience, having faithfully served churches in North Carolina, Florida, Indiana, and West Virginia. John retired in July 2018 as the Senior Pastor at Johnston Chapel Baptist Church in Princeton, WV, the church where he was saved as a child and called to preach as a teen. After completing Bible college and pastoring churches in three other states, he returned to Johnston Chapel, where he ministered for over 26 years. He and his wife Jeanie have been married 53 years, and rejoice in God's gifts of three daughters and seven grandchildren.

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Messages by Dr. John King

A Call To Refocus

Jan 24, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorThe Church5 Purposes of the Church

The message emphasizes the importance of having a clear vision and purpose for the church, drawing inspiration from the story of Helen Keller. The speaker calls for a refocus on the five biblical purposes of the church: worship, ministry, evangelism, fellowship, and discipleship. Each purpose is defined and explained, highlighting the need for the church to actively engage in these areas. The speaker encourages the congregation to embrace their roles in fulfilling these purposes and to develop a strategy for growth and outreach. The message concludes with a call to action for the church to embody these principles in their community.

Matthew 22:37-40Matthew 28:18-20Romans 12:1Romans 13:81 John 3:16-18Ephesians 4:12Colossians 1:281 Corinthians 4:161 Corinthians 11:1

Reflection Questions

What does it mean for you to love God with all your heart, soul, and mind in your daily life?

In what ways can you actively serve and meet the needs of those around you?

How can you share the message of Christ with others in your community?

What steps can you take to foster a sense of belonging and fellowship within your church?

How can you personally grow in your discipleship and commitment to Christ in the coming weeks?

No Wonder - No Worship

Jan 31, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorWorship5 Purposes of the Church

This message emphasizes the importance of wonder in worship, highlighting how true worship stems from a sense of awe and amazement at God's presence and deeds. The speaker reflects on biblical examples of individuals who encountered God and were filled with wonder, such as Moses, Isaiah, and Peter. The message calls for a revival of wonder in worship, warning against the dangers of familiarity and routine that can dull our spiritual senses. Ultimately, it encourages believers to actively participate in worship and develop personal worship disciplines to maintain a sense of awe towards God.

Isaiah 61:3Psalm 107:8Isaiah 9:6Exodus 3:1-6Isaiah 6:1-5Luke 5:5-8Revelation 1:12-17Matthew 18:1-4Romans 11:33-36Psalm 8:1-9

Reflection Questions

What does it mean to you to approach God with a sense of wonder?

Can you recall a moment when you felt truly awestruck by God's presence?

How can you cultivate a sense of wonder in your personal worship life?

In what ways do you think familiarity with worship can hinder your experience of God?

What steps can you take to actively participate in worship services and engage your heart more fully?

Learning To Share

Feb 14, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorFellowship5 Purposes of the Church

This message emphasizes the importance of fellowship within the church, highlighting that we are naturally selfish and need to learn to share our lives with others. The speaker discusses how true fellowship involves coming together, connecting with one another, challenging each other to grow in faith, and providing comfort. Using Hebrews 10:24-25, the message stresses the necessity of not forsaking the assembly of believers, especially during difficult times. The church is portrayed as an oasis for believers, where they can find strength and encouragement through community. Ultimately, the call is for the church to be a place of genuine biblical fellowship, where members actively engage and support one another.

Hebrews 10:24-25

Reflection Questions

1. In what ways do you find yourself holding back from fully participating in fellowship with others?

2. How can you actively contribute to creating a welcoming environment for newcomers in your church?

3. Reflect on a time when someone challenged or encouraged you in your faith; how did it impact you?

4. What practical steps can you take this week to connect more deeply with fellow believers in your church?

FAMOUS LAST WORDS

Feb 21, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorDiscipleship5 Purposes of the Church

This message emphasizes the importance of discipleship centered on the Word of God. The speaker discusses the power, perfection, and profitability of Scripture in guiding believers towards spiritual maturity. Paul’s last words to Timothy serve as a charge to focus on teaching and living out the Word. The message highlights that true discipleship occurs within the context of relationships, where believers can learn from one another and grow together in faith. Ultimately, the speaker encourages the congregation to remain Bible-focused in their ministry and personal lives.

Matthew 28:19-20Colossians 1:282 Timothy 3:14-171 Peter 1:23Ephesians 5:25-26John 15:3John 17:171 Corinthians 4:161 Corinthians 11:1Titus 2:3-5

Reflection Questions

What does it mean to you to be a disciple of Christ in your daily life?

How can you incorporate the teachings of Scripture into your relationships with others?

In what ways can you ensure that your ministry remains focused on the Word of God?

Reflect on a time when the Word of God brought clarity or direction in your life. How can you share that experience with others?

Getting Out Of The Stands

Feb 28, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorEvangelism5 Purposes of the Church

The message emphasizes the importance of moving from being a spectator in faith to actively participating in witnessing for Christ. It highlights that every believer has a role in the rescue mission to share the gospel with others. The speaker discusses the biblical foundation for witnessing, which includes living a lifestyle that reflects Christ, being prepared to answer questions about one's faith, and approaching others with gentleness and respect. The message concludes with a call to action for believers to engage in evangelism and fulfill their role as ambassadors for Christ.

Acts 1:81 Peter 3:15Matthew 28:192 Corinthians 5:18-21Isaiah 53:6Romans 6:23Ephesians 2:8-9Isaiah 59:2

Reflection Questions

What does it mean for you to move from being a fan of Christ to being an active participant in His mission?

How can you prepare yourself to share your faith with others in your daily life?

In what ways can you demonstrate a lifestyle of hope that prompts others to ask about your faith?

How do you approach conversations about faith with gentleness and respect, especially with those who may disagree with you?

I WANT YOU

Mar 7, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorMinistry5 Purposes of the Church

This message emphasizes that every believer is called to be a minister, not just pastors or missionaries. The speaker outlines the five purposes of the church: worship, fellowship, discipleship, evangelism, and ministry, highlighting how they interconnect. Using Ephesians 4, the speaker explains the process of ministry, which involves God giving gifted people to prepare the congregation for works of service. The message concludes with practical steps for individuals to identify their gifts and engage in ministry, reinforcing that ministry is essential for the growth and health of the church.

Ephesians 4:11-16

Reflection Questions

1. How do you see your role as a minister in your community or church?

2. What specific gifts or passions has God given you to serve others?

3. In what ways can you actively participate in ministry this week?

4. How can you encourage others in your church to discover their gifts and serve?

Living With Passion and Purpose

Apr 11, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorPurposeA Righteousness from God

This message emphasizes the importance of living a life centered around the gospel of Jesus Christ. The speaker challenges listeners to evaluate whether they are pursuing eternal significance or merely 'chasing sticks.' Paul, in his letter to the Romans, illustrates his passion and purpose for the gospel, highlighting the need for righteousness from God. The message outlines how believers can serve and sound out the gospel, encouraging personal reflection on one's commitment to sharing the faith.

Romans 1:1Romans 1:9Romans 1:15Romans 1:16Romans 1:17Romans 3:21Romans 15:14-15

Reflection Questions

What are the primary passions and purposes that drive your life currently?

In what ways can you actively serve others in the context of the gospel?

How can you ensure that your life is focused on eternal significance rather than temporary pursuits?

Are there specific individuals in your life with whom you can share the message of the gospel?

What steps can you take this week to deepen your commitment to living out your faith?

The Trial Of The Ungodly

Apr 25, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorSinA Righteousness from God

This sermon explores the concept of God's judgment and the need for righteousness through the lens of Romans chapters 1-3. The speaker emphasizes that all humanity is guilty before God and discusses the progression of rejecting God, starting with the suppression of truth, leading to the perversion of truth, and ultimately resulting in God's judgment. The message highlights that understanding the bad news of our sin is essential to appreciate the good news of the gospel. The speaker warns of the consequences of living a life apart from God, illustrating the dangers of a culture that has turned away from divine truth.

Romans 1:16-32

Reflection Questions

What truths about God have you been suppressing in your own life?

How can recognizing our need for God's righteousness change our perspective on the gospel?

In what ways do you see the perversion of truth reflected in today's culture?

How can you engage with friends or family who may be living in ways that reject God?

What steps can you take to ensure you are living in alignment with God's truth?

The Trial of the Moral Person

May 2, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorSalvationA Righteousness from God

In this message, the speaker examines Romans chapter 2, highlighting that even good moral people are under God's judgment. Using the parable from Luke 18, the speaker illustrates how self-righteousness can blind individuals to their own sinfulness. The message emphasizes that God's judgment is certain, impartial, and just, regardless of one's moral standing. The speaker warns that relying on one's good deeds without recognizing the need for God's grace leads to spiritual blindness and a hardened heart. Ultimately, everyone, regardless of their perceived morality, is accountable to God for their actions and thoughts.

Luke 18:10-14Romans 1:18-32Romans 2:1-16Romans 3:20Romans 4:4-5Ephesians 2:8-102 Corinthians 5:10Revelation 20:11-15

Reflection Questions

1. In what ways do you find yourself comparing your morality to others, and how does that affect your relationship with God?

2. Can you identify areas in your life where you might be blind to your own sinfulness?

3. How do you respond to the idea that God's judgment is impartial and based on the truth of your heart and actions?

4. What steps can you take to cultivate a more humble and repentant heart before God?

5. How does understanding God's grace change your perspective on your own morality and the morality of others?

The Dangers of Religion

May 23, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorReligionA Righteousness from God

This message emphasizes the dangers of relying on religion without a personal relationship with Christ. The speaker discusses how pride, hypocrisy, and false security can lead even the most religious individuals away from true salvation. Using Paul's teachings in Romans 2, the message warns that mere religious observance does not equate to righteousness before God. The speaker urges listeners to recognize their need for a personal relationship with Jesus rather than relying on outward symbols of faith. Ultimately, the call is for humility and genuine faith in Christ as the only means of salvation.

Romans 2:17-29Matthew 7:21-23James 1:27Galatians 6:141 Corinthians 15:102 Kings 5:1-14Ezekiel 33:30-32

Reflection Questions

What aspects of your religious practice might be masking a lack of true faith in Christ?

How can pride in your religious identity hinder your relationship with God?

In what ways do you find yourself judging others while ignoring your own shortcomings?

What does it mean for you to have a personal relationship with Jesus, and how can you deepen that relationship?

How can you ensure that your faith is based on a genuine commitment to Christ rather than mere religious observance?

Too Busy For Christ

Dec 26, 2010Dr. John King, Senior PastorChristmas

This message reflects on the various figures present during the birth of Christ and those who were absent or unaware. The speaker emphasizes how people like Caesar Augustus, King Herod, religious leaders, and the innkeeper were preoccupied with their own concerns and missed the significance of Christ's birth. The message challenges listeners to consider what they are too busy with in their own lives that might prevent them from recognizing Christ's presence and preparing for His return. Ultimately, it calls for self-examination regarding priorities and readiness for Christ's second coming.

Luke 2:1Matthew 2:1Micah 5:2

Reflection Questions

What distractions in your life might be keeping you from recognizing Christ's presence?

How do you prioritize your time during the Christmas season, and does it reflect your focus on Christ?

In what ways might you be seeking power or position over your relationship with God?

Are there religious activities that you engage in that might be overshadowing your personal connection with Christ?

What steps can you take to ensure you are spiritually prepared for Christ's return?

Our Great God

Feb 13, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorGod's GreatnessA Righteousness from God

This message focuses on the greatness of God as revealed in Romans chapter 11. The speaker discusses God's faithfulness to His promises, particularly regarding Israel, and emphasizes that His mercy extends to both Jews and Gentiles. The message highlights God's wisdom and knowledge, which are beyond human understanding, and encourages believers to trust in His plans and purposes. Ultimately, the speaker calls for a recognition of God's greatness in all aspects of life.

Romans 11:25Romans 11:26Romans 11:27Romans 11:28Romans 11:30Romans 11:31Romans 11:32Jeremiah 31:34Zechariah 12:101 Corinthians 10:131 Thessalonians 5:242 Thessalonians 3:31 John 1:9Titus 3:5Ephesians 2:4-51 Peter 1:3

Reflection Questions

1. How do you see God's faithfulness in your own life?

2. In what ways can you extend mercy to others as God has shown mercy to you?

3. What challenges are you currently facing that require you to trust in God's wisdom?

4. How does understanding God's greatness impact your daily decisions and actions?

5. What specific promises of God can you hold onto during difficult times?

Basic Instructions

Feb 20, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorCommitmentA Righteousness from God

This message emphasizes the importance of dedicating our lives to God as a response to His mercy. The speaker outlines three basic instructions for Christians: dedication, separation from worldly values, and transformation through the renewal of the mind. Dedication involves offering ourselves as living sacrifices, while separation means resisting the pressures of the world system. Transformation is achieved by renewing our minds with God's Word, leading to a life that reflects His glory and fulfills His will.

Deuteronomy 6:4-7Micah 6:8Matthew 22:37-39Romans 12:1-2Romans 6:131 John 2:15-161 John 5:192 Corinthians 4:4Matthew 17:22 Corinthians 3:18

Reflection Questions

What does it mean for you to offer your body as a living sacrifice to God?

In what areas of your life do you feel pressured to conform to the world's values?

How can you actively renew your mind to align more closely with God's will?

What practical steps can you take this week to dedicate yourself fully to God?

How can understanding God's mercy motivate you to live a life of dedication and transformation?

Serving Together in the Body

Feb 27, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorServingA Righteousness from God

This message emphasizes the importance of unity and diversity within the church as the body of Christ. The speaker discusses how each member has a unique role and spiritual gifts that contribute to the overall functioning of the church. Paul’s teachings in Romans 12 are highlighted, focusing on the need for believers to have the right attitudes toward themselves, others, and their ministries. The message encourages active participation in serving the church community, recognizing that each person's contribution is vital. Ultimately, the call is for believers to work together harmoniously, valuing both unity and diversity.

Romans 12:1-81 Timothy 3:6Matthew 25:14-30

Reflection Questions

1. How do you view your role within the church community, and what steps can you take to better understand it?

2. In what ways can you celebrate the diversity of gifts and passions among your fellow believers?

3. How can you actively contribute to the unity of your church body, especially when disagreements arise?

4. What specific ministry or service opportunity can you pursue to utilize your spiritual gifts this week?

Living Below With The Saints I Know

Mar 13, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorRelationshipsA Righteousness from God

This sermon emphasizes the importance of sincere love among believers as outlined in Romans 12. The speaker discusses how genuine love must be without hypocrisy, focusing on the needs of others rather than oneself. Additionally, the message highlights the need for faithful service to God and character development, encouraging believers to maintain zeal and patience in their spiritual lives. Finally, the sermon calls for unselfish giving, both materially and emotionally, to foster unity and support within the church community.

Romans 12:9-16

Reflection Questions

1. How can you practice sincere love in your relationships with others in your church community?

2. In what ways can you serve faithfully and maintain zeal in your spiritual life?

3. Are there specific areas in your life where you struggle with hypocrisy in your expressions of love?

4. How can you actively seek opportunities to give unselfishly to those in need around you?

How to Defeat an Enemy

Mar 20, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorResponse to HurtsA Righteousness from God

This message focuses on how to respond to personal affronts and mistreatment by others. The speaker emphasizes the importance of a peaceable response, urging listeners not to retaliate but to trust God for justice. Additionally, the message encourages acts of kindness towards those who have wronged us, highlighting that such responses can lead to healing and reconciliation. Ultimately, the speaker calls for a higher standard of behavior that reflects Christ's example of forgiveness and grace.

Romans 12:17Romans 12:18Romans 12:19Proverbs 25:21-221 Peter 2:21-24

Reflection Questions

1. How do you typically respond when someone wrongs you, and what does that reveal about your character?

2. Can you recall a specific instance where you chose to respond with kindness instead of retaliation? What was the outcome?

3. What steps can you take this week to practice living at peace with someone who has hurt you?

4. In what ways can trusting God with your hurt change your perspective on the situation?

5. How does the example of Jesus influence your understanding of forgiveness and kindness towards others?

The Believer and Government

Apr 3, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorCitizenshipA Righteousness from God

This message discusses the relationship between believers and government, emphasizing the biblical principle that all governing authorities are instituted by God. The speaker explores historical examples of moral dilemmas faced by Christians regarding obedience to government versus following their conscience. Key responsibilities of government include representing God's authority, protecting the good, and punishing evil, while believers are called to submit to authority, live within the law, pay taxes honestly, and show respect for those in power. The message concludes with a reminder that while believers must obey God above all, they are also called to honor and respect governmental authority.

Romans 13:1-7Deuteronomy 17:15Genesis 9:6Daniel 2:21Daniel 4:17Daniel 5:21John 19:11Acts 4:19-20Acts 5:29

Reflection Questions

How do you reconcile your personal beliefs with the laws of the government?

What are some ways you can show respect for authority, even when you disagree with it?

Can you think of a time when you faced a moral dilemma regarding obedience to authority? How did you handle it?

In what ways can you actively engage in your community while maintaining your faith principles?

How does understanding the biblical perspective on government influence your view of current political issues?

How's Your Love Life?

Apr 10, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorLoveA Righteousness from God

This message emphasizes the importance of genuine love for one another and for God, as outlined in Romans 13. The speaker explains that love must be demonstrated through actions, not merely words, and highlights the obligation to love others as a fulfillment of God's law. The message also addresses the need for believers to wake up spiritually, clean up their lives from sin, and dress themselves in Christ to live out their faith authentically. Ultimately, the call is to reflect on how well we are living out our love for others and for God in our daily lives.

Romans 13:8-141 John 3:16-182 Timothy 4:8

Reflection Questions

1. How do you demonstrate your love for others in your daily life?

2. In what ways can you ensure that your love for God is reflected in your actions?

3. Are there areas in your life where you need to wake up spiritually and take action?

4. What specific changes can you make to clean up your life and align it more closely with God's will?

5. How can you actively dress yourself in Christ each day to live out your faith?

Taboo or Not Taboo

May 1, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorChristian LibertyA Righteousness from God

This message focuses on Romans 14 and the concept of Christian liberty, particularly how early Jewish believers struggled to adapt to their newfound freedom in Christ. The speaker highlights the importance of acceptance and humility among believers with differing convictions on disputable matters. He emphasizes that both stronger and weaker brothers in faith must show grace and understanding towards each other. The message also addresses contemporary issues where Christians may disagree, urging a spirit of unity rather than division.

Romans 14:1-21 Corinthians 8:41 Corinthians 8:71 Thessalonians 5:22

Reflection Questions

1. How do you respond to fellow believers who have different convictions than you?

2. In what areas of your life do you struggle with understanding Christian liberty?

3. Can you identify a time when you judged someone for their beliefs or practices? How can you approach that differently in the future?

4. What steps can you take to foster acceptance and grace within your church community?

Balancing Liberty & Love

May 22, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorChristian LibertyA Righteousness from God

The sermon discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of Christian liberty as outlined in Romans 14. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding that differences in personal convictions can exist where the Bible does not provide specific commands. Key principles include guarding one's attitude towards others, recognizing that we ultimately answer to God for our choices, and the necessity of restraining one's liberty to avoid causing others to stumble in their faith. The message encourages acceptance, humility, and grace among believers with differing convictions.

Romans 14:1-12Isaiah 45:23Exodus 31

Reflection Questions

1. How do you respond when someone else's convictions differ from your own?

2. In what areas of your life do you feel you have the freedom to form your own convictions?

3. Can you think of a time when you had to restrain your liberty for the sake of another believer?

4. How can you ensure that your attitudes towards others reflect acceptance and grace?

Silly Church Fights

May 29, 2011Dr. John King, Senior PastorChristian LibertyA Righteousness from God

The message discusses the importance of understanding Christian liberty and how to navigate disagreements among believers. It emphasizes that while Christians have freedom in non-essential matters, they must be mindful of their actions and how they affect others, especially weaker brothers. The speaker outlines four principles for handling these issues: guarding one's attitude, recognizing to whom we ultimately answer, restraining liberty when necessary, and building each other up. The message encourages love and mutual respect among believers, avoiding unnecessary conflicts over trivial matters.

Romans 14:1-23John 13:35

Reflection Questions

1. How do you currently navigate disagreements with fellow believers over non-essential issues?

2. In what areas of your life do you feel the need to restrain your liberty for the sake of others?

3. Can you identify a time when you may have caused a weaker brother or sister to stumble? How can you make amends?

4. What steps can you take to help a weaker brother or sister grow in their understanding of Christian liberty?

5. How can you ensure that your actions reflect love and mutual respect in your relationships with other believers?

A Marriage Made In Heaven

Jul 7, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorMarriageA Marriage Made In Heaven

The message introduces a sermon series focused on biblical principles for marriage, emphasizing the importance of building a marriage on God's word. It discusses the foundational verse, Psalm 127:1, highlighting that unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. The speaker outlines the structure of the series, which will include topics such as love and respect in marriage, conflict management, and the significance of a Christian marriage. The message stresses the need for couples to seek God's guidance and to understand the sacredness of marriage amidst cultural challenges.

Psalm 127:1Genesis 2:24Ephesians 5:331 Peter 3:7Matthew 19:4-52 Corinthians 6:141 Corinthians 7:39Hebrews 13:4

Reflection Questions

What expectations do you have for your marriage, and how do they align with biblical teachings?

In what ways can you actively seek God's guidance in your relationship?

How can understanding the roles of love and respect improve your interactions with your spouse?

What steps can you take to build a strong foundation for your marriage based on biblical principles?

How can you support friends or family members who are struggling in their marriages?

Consulting The Blueprint

Jul 14, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorMarriageA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the importance of following God's original blueprint for marriage as outlined in Genesis 2. The speaker discusses the origin of marriage, highlighting that it was instituted by God and is meant to be a heterosexual and monogamous union. The message also covers the blessings and purposes of marriage, including companionship, sexual fulfillment, and the portrayal of Christ's relationship with the church. The speaker encourages listeners to reflect on their own marriages and the foundational principles that guide them.

Genesis 1:26-28Genesis 2:18-24Proverbs 18:22Ephesians 5:22-251 Corinthians 7:1-5Hebrews 13:4

Reflection Questions

What does it mean to you that God instituted marriage?

How can you apply the biblical principles of marriage to your own relationships?

In what ways can you ensure that your marriage reflects the relationship between Christ and the church?

What steps can you take to strengthen the companionship in your marriage?

Love and Respect

Jul 28, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorMarriageA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on the biblical principles of love and respect in marriage, as outlined in Ephesians 5. The speaker emphasizes that husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, while wives are called to respect their husbands through submission. The message highlights the importance of understanding these roles within the context of a loving and supportive relationship. The speaker also addresses common misconceptions about submission and leadership in marriage, advocating for a model of servant leadership that mirrors Christ's relationship with the church.

Ephesians 5:22-33Mark 10:45Luke 22:26Genesis 2:24

Reflection Questions

1. How can you actively demonstrate love to your spouse in a sacrificial way this week?

2. In what areas do you struggle with respect or submission in your marriage?

3. How does understanding Christ's love for the church change your perspective on your role in marriage?

4. What practical steps can you take to nourish and cherish your marriage?

5. How can you communicate your needs and expectations to your spouse more effectively?

How To Love Your Wife

Aug 4, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on the biblical principles of love and respect in marriage, particularly emphasizing the husband's role in loving his wife. The speaker discusses the importance of closeness and openness in a marriage, drawing from various scripture passages, including Ephesians and Song of Solomon. He highlights how men can demonstrate love through actions that foster intimacy and connection. The message encourages husbands to understand their wives' needs for emotional closeness and open communication to strengthen their relationships.

Ephesians 5:22-33Song of Solomon 3:1-5Genesis 2:24Genesis 29:32Deuteronomy 24:5Colossians 3:19

Reflection Questions

How can you actively demonstrate love and closeness to your spouse this week?

In what ways do you currently communicate openly with your partner, and how can you improve this?

What fears or misconceptions do you have about expressing vulnerability in your relationship?

How does understanding the differences between men and women help you navigate your marriage better?

How To Love Your Wife (2)

Aug 11, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This sermon focuses on the biblical principles of understanding and respecting one's spouse, particularly within the context of marriage. The speaker emphasizes the importance of husbands loving their wives as Christ loves the church and the necessity of understanding their needs and feelings. Key points include the significance of communication, the role of love languages, and the importance of conflict resolution through gentleness and taking responsibility. The message encourages husbands to invest time and effort into understanding their wives to foster a healthier marriage.

Ephesians 5:331 Peter 3:7Romans 12:18Romans 14:19Ephesians 4:2Ephesians 4:32Isaiah 54:5Matthew 7:3-51 John 4:19

Reflection Questions

What are some specific ways you can show understanding and respect to your spouse this week?

How do you currently communicate with your spouse, and what changes could improve that communication?

In what areas do you struggle to understand your spouse, and how can you actively work on those areas?

Reflect on a recent conflict; how could you have approached it differently to promote peace and understanding?

How to Love Your Wife (3)

Sep 1, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the importance of loyalty in marriage, highlighting how husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church. The speaker discusses practical ways to demonstrate loyalty, such as reassuring wives with words and actions, making a covenant with one's eyes, and committing to faithfulness. He uses biblical references, particularly from Ephesians and the Song of Solomon, to illustrate the principles of love and respect within marriage. The message concludes with a call for men to renew their commitment to their wives and uphold the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong covenant.

Ephesians 5:25-33Song of Solomon 1:9-11Song of Solomon 2:4Job 31:1Proverbs 5:15-18Malachi 2:13-16

Reflection Questions

What are some specific ways you can reassure your spouse of your love and loyalty?

How do you demonstrate commitment to your marriage in your daily actions?

In what ways can you create a supportive environment for your spouse to feel valued?

What steps can you take to guard your heart and eyes in today's culture?

How can you renew your marriage vows or commitments to strengthen your relationship?

How to Love Your Wife (4)

Sep 8, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHusbandA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on how husbands are called to love their wives, drawing from Ephesians 5 and other scriptures. The speaker emphasizes the importance of loyalty, esteem, and cherishing one's wife through actions and words. Practical ways to express love include sharing life, praising her contributions, and treating her with respect. The message encourages husbands to understand their wives' needs for affirmation and to actively demonstrate their love through symbolic gestures. Ultimately, the call is to love wives as Christ loves the church.

Ephesians 5:28Philippians 2:31 Peter 3:7Song of Solomon 8:6Job 31:1Proverbs 5:15Malachi 2:14Proverbs 31:10Song of Solomon 5:2

Reflection Questions

1. In what ways do you currently express love and esteem to your spouse?

2. How can you improve your communication to ensure your wife feels valued?

3. What symbolic gestures can you implement to show your love for your wife?

4. Reflect on a time when you felt unappreciated; how can you ensure your wife never feels that way?

5. How does understanding your wife's perspective change the way you approach your relationship?

How To Respect Your Husband

Sep 15, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorWifeA Marriage Made In Heaven

This sermon emphasizes the importance of respect in marriage, particularly from wives towards their husbands. The speaker discusses how a husband's greatest need is respect, as outlined in Ephesians 5:33. He explains that God has instilled in men a desire to work, achieve, protect, and provide for their families. The message encourages wives to appreciate these qualities and to support their husbands in their roles, highlighting that respect is crucial for a healthy marriage.

Ephesians 5:22Ephesians 5:331 Peter 3:1Genesis 2:7Genesis 2:151 Thessalonians 2:7Titus 2:4Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 11:3Proverbs 14:1Proverbs 18:21Proverbs 12:18Proverbs 21:9Proverbs 19:13

Reflection Questions

1. In what ways can you show respect to your spouse in daily life?

2. How does understanding your spouse's needs change your perspective on your relationship?

3. What are some practical steps you can take to support your spouse's work and achievements?

4. How can you create an environment in your home that fosters mutual respect?

5. Reflect on a time when you felt respected by your spouse. How did it impact your relationship?

How To Respect Your Husband (2)

Sep 22, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorWifeA Marriage Made In Heaven

The message focuses on the biblical principles of marriage, particularly the roles of husbands and wives as outlined in Ephesians 5. The speaker emphasizes the importance of love and respect, highlighting that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church, while wives are to respect their husbands. The message also addresses cultural objections to biblical authority and submission, clarifying that these roles are rooted in God's design for marriage. Practical advice is given for how wives can show respect for their husbands' authority and insight.

Ephesians 5:22-33Matthew 20:26-28Genesis 2:16-171 Timothy 2:11-131 Corinthians 11:3Galatians 3:28Romans 5:12-19

Reflection Questions

1. How do you currently show respect to your spouse in your marriage?

2. In what ways can you better understand and appreciate your spouse's role and insights?

3. How do cultural views on marriage and authority influence your perspective on your relationship?

4. What practical steps can you take this week to demonstrate love and respect in your marriage?

How To Respect Your Husband (3)

Oct 6, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorWifeA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message focuses on the roles of husbands and wives in a marriage, emphasizing the importance of love and respect. The speaker discusses how husbands should love their wives as themselves, while wives should respect their husbands. The message highlights the differences in communication styles between men and women, particularly the need for shoulder-to-shoulder friendship for men. Additionally, it addresses the significance of sexual intimacy within marriage and the biblical principles surrounding it. The speaker encourages couples to meet each other's needs to strengthen their marriage.

Ephesians 5:33Proverbs 2:17Song of Solomon 5:16Titus 2:3-51 Corinthians 7:3-5Hebrews 13:4Proverbs 5:18-19Matthew 5:27-28

Reflection Questions

How can you better show respect to your spouse in your daily interactions?

What are some practical ways you can communicate love to your partner?

In what ways do you think your communication style differs from your spouse's?

How can understanding your spouse's needs improve your relationship?

What steps can you take this week to strengthen the friendship aspect of your marriage?

The Fight Is Off

Oct 13, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorConflictA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the importance of resolving conflict in marriage, emphasizing that differences in personality and the presence of faults are common challenges. The speaker outlines three general principles for conflict resolution: recognizing differences, acknowledging faults, and understanding that conflict can be resolved. Specific biblical principles are provided, including self-examination, effective communication, forgiveness, and focusing on each other's strengths. The message concludes with a prayer for marriages facing difficulties, encouraging couples to apply these principles to restore harmony.

1 Corinthians 12:4-7Romans 3:9-12Matthew 7:3-5Ephesians 4:25-32Philippians 2:3Galatians 5:22-23

Reflection Questions

1. How do you typically handle conflict in your marriage or relationships?

2. What are some differences you and your partner have that could lead to conflict, and how can you appreciate those differences?

3. Can you identify specific faults in yourself that may contribute to conflicts? How can you address them?

4. How can you practice forgiveness in your relationship, especially after a disagreement?

5. What strengths do you see in your partner that you can focus on to improve your relationship?

Your Parents and Your Marriage

Oct 27, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorYour ParentsA Marriage Made In Heaven

This sermon discusses the importance of leaving father and mother in the context of marriage, emphasizing loyalty to one's spouse over parental relationships. The speaker outlines practical applications for avoiding conflict with parents, including managing time, finances, and advice. He stresses the need to honor parents while establishing a new loyalty to one's spouse and children. Additionally, the message highlights the responsibility of caring for aging parents and the balance required in maintaining a healthy marriage. Overall, the sermon encourages couples to navigate their relationships with parents thoughtfully to foster harmony in their marriage.

Genesis 2:24Ephesians 6:1-2Matthew 19:51 Corinthians 6:16Ephesians 5:311 Timothy 5:8

Reflection Questions

How can you ensure that your loyalty to your spouse is prioritized over your relationship with your parents?

What specific strategies can you implement to avoid conflicts with your in-laws?

In what ways can you honor your parents while establishing your own family dynamics?

How do you plan to address potential conflicts that may arise from differing family traditions?

What steps can you take to prepare for the possibility of caring for aging parents in a way that supports your marriage?

Building a Communication Network

Nov 3, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorCommunicationA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the critical role of communication in marriages, highlighting that despite technological advancements, many couples struggle to connect on a deeper level. The speaker discusses various hindrances to effective communication, such as pride, anger, and misunderstanding, and offers practical solutions based on biblical principles found in Ephesians 4. Key strategies include being open and truthful, not allowing anger to fester, and committing issues to God in prayer. The message concludes with a call to action for couples to start breaking down communication barriers and work towards healing their relationships.

Ephesians 4:17-24James 1:5Ephesians 4:25Ephesians 4:26Ephesians 4:29Hebrews 4:15

Reflection Questions

1. What communication barriers have you experienced in your own relationships?

2. How can you apply the principles from Ephesians 4 to improve your communication with your spouse?

3. In what ways do you tend to either clam up or blow up during conflicts?

4. How can prayer play a role in resolving communication issues in your marriage?

5. What steps can you take this week to start breaking down walls of silence or misunderstanding in your relationship?

Looking Out for Number One

Nov 10, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorSelfishnessA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message discusses the pervasive issue of selfishness in marriages and emphasizes the importance of selflessness. The speaker highlights how individualism and a decline in moral virtues contribute to marital conflicts. Drawing from Philippians 2, the message outlines principles of unselfishness, such as valuing others above oneself and avoiding selfish ambition. The speaker encourages couples to adopt a mindset similar to Christ's, focusing on serving and loving each other rather than seeking personal fulfillment.

Philippians 2:1-5Ephesians 5:312 Timothy 3:21 Corinthians 7:3-4

Reflection Questions

In what ways do you see selfishness affecting your relationships?

How can you actively practice selflessness in your marriage this week?

What does it mean to you to value your partner above yourself?

Can you identify a recent situation where you acted out of self-interest rather than considering your partner's needs?

Building Love Into Your Marriage

Nov 24, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorLoveA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message discusses the importance of building love into marriage through understanding, cultivation, and rekindling. The speaker emphasizes that love is not merely a feeling but a commitment to selfless giving for the benefit of one's partner. Key biblical references highlight the nature of love as described in Ephesians and 1 Corinthians, focusing on patience, kindness, and sacrifice. The message also addresses common myths about love, urging couples to actively cultivate their relationship to ensure its longevity and health.

Ephesians 5:25Titus 2:4John 3:16Romans 5:81 John 4:9-101 Corinthians 13:4-7

Reflection Questions

What does it mean to you to love selflessly in your marriage?

How can you actively cultivate love in your relationship this week?

What are some misconceptions about love that you may have held?

How can you apply the biblical definition of love to your daily interactions with your spouse?

Truth or Consequences

Dec 1, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorHonestyA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message emphasizes the importance of honesty in relationships, particularly in marriage. The speaker discusses how many relationships suffer from superficiality due to a lack of truthfulness and the consequences that arise from avoiding difficult conversations. Biblical principles are highlighted, including the necessity of speaking truthfully and the dangers of dishonesty. The message encourages listeners to cultivate open and honest communication to foster deeper connections and avoid the pitfalls of deceit.

Ephesians 4:25Colossians 3:9Exodus 20:16Proverbs 6:16-19Proverbs 8:6-8Proverbs 12:17Proverbs 12:19Proverbs 13:5Proverbs 24:11-12Proverbs 26:23

Reflection Questions

What are some ways you can practice honesty in your relationships this week?

How do you typically respond when someone shares a difficult truth with you?

Can you identify areas in your life where you may be avoiding honesty?

What steps can you take to create a more open and trusting environment in your marriage or friendships?

Taming the Money Monster

Dec 15, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorFinancesA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the cultural shift in attitudes towards money and possessions, highlighting how the 'money monster' has negatively impacted families and marriages. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding both wrong and right attitudes towards money, as outlined in 1 Timothy 6. Key principles include recognizing money as a servant rather than a master, prioritizing spiritual over material wealth, and practicing generosity and contentment. The message concludes with practical steps for sound financial management to achieve harmony in relationships.

1 Timothy 6:6-10Luke 12:16-21James 1:17Proverbs 3:91 Corinthians 16:1-2Philippians 4:11-12Hebrews 13:5Matthew 6:19-21Matthew 6:24Matthew 6:31-33

Reflection Questions

What are some ways the pursuit of wealth has affected your relationships?

How can you shift your focus from material possessions to spiritual priorities in your life?

In what areas of your financial life do you feel the 'money monster' has taken control?

What practical steps can you take this week to start managing your finances in a way that honors God?

Living With an Unbelieving Mate

Dec 29, 2013Dr. John King, Senior PastorUnequal YokeA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the challenges faced by a believing wife living with an unbelieving husband, emphasizing the importance of submission, moral purity, and inner beauty. The speaker highlights that the solution is not to leave the marriage or pressure the husband with words, but rather to demonstrate a consistent, godly life that reflects Christ's love. The message draws from 1 Peter 3, encouraging believers to focus on their behavior and character as a means to influence their unbelieving spouse positively. Ultimately, the speaker stresses the significance of inner beauty and a gentle spirit in winning over an unbelieving partner.

1 Peter 3:1-62 Corinthians 6:141 Corinthians 7:12-15

Reflection Questions

1. How can you cultivate a gentle and quiet spirit in your daily interactions?

2. What are some practical ways you can demonstrate moral purity in your relationships?

3. In what areas of your life do you feel challenged to submit to authority, and how can you approach that with a Christ-like attitude?

4. How can you show love and kindness to someone who is resistant to the gospel without using words?

5. Reflect on a time when your actions spoke louder than your words; what did you learn from that experience?

When It All Comes Crashing Down

Jan 5, 2014Dr. John King, Senior PastorDivorceA Marriage Made In Heaven

This message addresses the complexities of divorce within the context of Christian teachings. The speaker emphasizes God's original design for marriage as a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman, while acknowledging the reality of living in a fallen world where divorce occurs. He discusses biblical allowances for divorce, particularly in cases of infidelity and abandonment, and stresses the importance of grace, understanding, and compassion for those affected by divorce. The message concludes with a call for the church to support and restore individuals who have experienced divorce, emphasizing that they are not second-class Christians and can be forgiven and restored.

Matthew 19:3-9Mark 10:11-12Luke 16:18Romans 7:2-31 Corinthians 7:15Malachi 2:161 John 2:1-2

Reflection Questions

How do you view the topic of divorce in light of God's original design for marriage?

In what ways can you extend grace and compassion to those who have experienced divorce?

What are some practical steps you can take to support individuals in your community who are navigating the challenges of divorce?

How can understanding the complexities of divorce help you to avoid judgment and offer support to others?

Facing Life's Challenges

Jan 14, 2018Dr. John King, Senior PastorFacing Challenges

This message focuses on the themes of transition and facing challenges, drawing parallels between the biblical account of Joshua and the personal experiences of the speaker. The speaker reflects on their own journey of leadership and the importance of trusting in God's promises during times of change. Key points include the necessity of facing challenges head-on, relying on God's constant presence, and the power of His promises. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being strong and courageous, as well as the need to immerse oneself in the Word of God for strength and guidance.

Joshua 1:1-9Exodus 17:8-13Numbers 13:1-2Numbers 27:18-23Romans 8:28-29Hebrews 13:5James 4:7Psalm 113:5-6Deuteronomy 33:27

Reflection Questions

What challenges are you currently facing, and how can you apply the lessons from Joshua's story to your situation?

In what ways do you see God's promises in your life, and how can they encourage you during difficult times?

How can you strengthen your relationship with God through His Word this week?

What does it mean for you to be strong and courageous in the face of your challenges?

How can you support others in your community who may be facing similar transitions or challenges?